i would never date a guy who got honestly very shocked/insulted if i asked him if he was gay. i tend to ask odd questions, and i'd hope he'd just... either say he's uncomfortable with the question or else get over it and just answer. i don't think that's too much of a personal question... i just (in this hypothetical situation in which i'm evalutating whether he's date-able or not) want to know if he could even potentially be into me. and if he's that thrown off by such a little thing, then i'm not interested anymore.
what if he wouldn't answer me and so i assumed that he was straight and then got really into him and asked him out and then he told me he was gay? i'd be so mad at him... :P
gangster ears? what a loser. hahaha. unless you like him, ann... then i'm just kidding and i mean, gangster ears? ooooooh yeah.
btw, aaron... i hope you know that by putting your bday on the 17th, i have half a day to shop/prep your present. unless i get dan to go shopping for me (which i actually have never done but would rather not have to consider). i have french and chem on monday and need to stay home and study (aside from work... which i've been doing the past 4 days in a row) and then english on tuesday which i am FREAKED for... then math on sat for which i need to spend the remaining three days preparing for my mathematical demise... and then when it ends (at 7pm) i guess i can worry about my aaron-dispensed demise. :(
my pic "analysis" was more of me being really excited and like, making random points about the pic and then following up. i didn't know it would be so critically analyzed... :(
need to shower and chem (AGAIN) byebye!
-chels
ps - so uhh... tell me again when you guys got so serious...? (lily)
pps - aaron!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i don't care if you don't ask people out but don't say you will and convince yourself (or at least me) that you're gonna do something this time and then back (or chicken) out. because that's exactly what dan did... for many months. and although i've forgiven him, like... it's not fun on the receiving end to expect something. what if you gave your customer service guy a glimpse of hope in your eyes?? your eeeeyes!
i dunno. maybe try not to resolve to do anything until you've got the facts... or at least are kinda sure you do. single? gaydar going off? he nice enough to be worth your time? (because only a select few single gay guys are worth your time) then maybe you should consider it. but before you even know if he's single, for example... i dunno. rushed to conclusions?
do you know if he's single? (i was just exampling)
ppps - not suggesting anything (seriously) but merely commenting: i think it's weird when people who met at work start going out. not like, if they were going out and then get jobs together... but if people met at work and then start going out. i just think it's... i dunno. more so for older people though... like, one of the assistant managers at iga goes out with a bakery lady... it's actually quite odd. and he'll buy her flowers and stuff and service clerks will give him crap about it and all... :| but i think it's because he's old (30s?). and he works at iga. iga is weird.
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