No more drama

Whoa... so much drama. I didn't know that just from telling you guys about my guy that this would happen.

I'm going to try and be the mediator in this situation.

First off, that was pink, not red, but good try.

Second, and more importantly, I don't think I'm part of people who want you to get a love life/bf, but if I ever said anything like that, then I apologize for that. (though I did suggest someone for you, but I think that's different)

As for what Ann is talking about, I can understand that. Lily, I think we all know that you never intend your jokes/comments to hurt anyone and it's all in good fun, but it's not what you think of them, it's how other people take it, regardless of what you had initially intended. it seems like in this case, it may be best to lay off the jokes. Ann isn't asking you to not be her friend anymore. I'm sure she values you as a friend like the rest of us. She's just asking that you not say those things anymore.

And as for Lily's point of not telling her in person, yeah, it would've been better, I agree, but some things are a lot easier to just write/type out. You don't have to deal with other people's immediate reaction, and it would be a lot harder to say in person, face to face.

After reading Annie's post regarding her concerns, and then Lily's, it doesn't seem like you're really trying to understand what Ann is trying to say, Lily, no offense. (Still trying to be objective here) But maybe I'm wrong. Do you think some of the comments you say could possibly be taken as a little insulting, Lily?

But maybe my opinions are just getting in the way; in that case, just ignore what I've said. You guys should sit down talk about this, in person.

Also, for the record, it may have seemed like i was "hiding guys" but I wasn't. I just didn't really mention them because nothing was happening between us. We were just friends. But then this happened, and now I'm telling you.

I hope you guys figure out what needs to be said.

~~Aaron
PS. Are you guys still coming on Sunday...?