oh aarie... i'm really sorry that you had to have that happen. but i do think that there are definitely other guys worth your time and who will appreciate you more. enjoy being single while you can, because you won't be forever. i kind of miss it :( i'm not saying i would give up dan, but i mean, i kind of wish i could just... go back in time for a while (but stay 18 and going to university) because there are just so many guys that make me go "hmm... i wonder..."
but not for more than a second, of course :P again, i wouldn't give up dan, but i'm just saying. browse while you can. there are a lot of great guys out there (though some not so much...)
anyways, aaron. i'm not trying to be like "good! you broke up!" but i mean... as corny as this sounds, even in my head, try to make the best of this and use it as an opportunity to grow and... reevaluate the situation. was he really good enough? in my personal opinion, no. but that's just me. and i think that you can definitely find someone who will love you so much that he will fight and go out of his way to get to hold on to you; not just let you slip away. in my head, that's just not good enough.
he has to realise that being with you is a privilege, and not just something that can be half-assedly done.
seriously aarie, if during some of our big fights, dan had never put in the effort to argue hard and convince me that he was worth the effort, we wouldn't be together anymore. i mean it. because if the guy doesn't realise what he's walking away from, in my mind, he's an idiot and doesn't deserve me. i guess i look at guys the way lily looks at jobs: very high expectations.
i seriously think that way though, and aarie, in my mind, scott was a moron for letting you go and he doesn't have a clue (YET) what a friggin' stupid mistake he made. i really think it was stupid of him not even to think about what the hell he was doing. i don't think he deserves you, honestly, aarie. he doesn't see what he passed up on, and poo on him.
this is all my opinion only, aarie, of course, so use the information as you like. i just wanted you to know this is how i feel, and i just really wanted to emphasize that it's not okay to settle for less. that goes for all of you!!!
i don't know why, but i seem to have a strong passion for spreading empowerment in relationships and high expectations for guys... but i don't think (for the most part) they're unreasonable. anyways...
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ann: let me do your hair!!! we'll trade irons for a day
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lily: let me know what happens on your trip (are you going to the wax museum? we did. it was lame. i dislike museums greatly)
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joanne: what are you doing now that school's out? keeping busy?
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-chels
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