exam time exam time

going to the libraryyyyyy...

yeah, i don't really have anything to say but i feel left out of the conversation so i'm posting anyways...

along with zee other two, i don't feel like it's okay for me to comment yet on what happened, as i don't feel like we have all the information (not that i think you're holding back, necessarily, i just think there are more qs that need to be asked).

and yeah. on the overall situation, it's really good that you know that you were thinking clearly... but just admitting that isn't good enough. to be a bit harsh, this didn't "just happen." you guys chose to do this, so you need to take responsibility for it. "this might happen again" isn't a very mature take on this, as you are part of that decision (of whether or not it will happen again). if it happened once, okay fine, it's done. does that "mean" something? i don't know, but do you want this or not? i'm not saying it's an easy decision, as it's super probably not, but you need to deal with it!!! just make your decision! be responsible and mature and suck it up! it's hard but do you think it will be easier to make things mush and confusing and heartbreaking for the both of you? figure it out, state your terms, talk it out, and stick to it!!! don't just let things happen to you! you have the power to choose so use it! your life and your choice -- i think you know better than anyone else what's best for you.

-chelsea

ps- aarie, don't think i'm mad or anything (i have no idea how this post "sounds" but in my head it's not angry)... although i don't see why i would be... hmm... anyways, what happened happened, for whatever reason. what really reflects on you and your personality, however, is how you choose to deal with the situation, which is basically what i was getting at...