aaron i wasn't THAT serious. Obviously i know that it was my choice and OBVIOUSLY i don't expect either you, ann or joanne for that matter to "put your life on hold" for me. It was just a comment. Don't go nuts!

Also, if you want to tell me about your "sex life" - existent or not- i don't really care but my earlier statement wasn't to implicitly ask you if you did or didn't. If i wanted to know i would ask

I guess at the moment of the post i was sort of still in the "we've been together for longer so you can't do anything that i haven't done first" mode. But actually it was very silly of me to type that so i retract it. Because like you said, it was my own choice that shouldn't affect neither your's, ann's or joanne's. I'm still proud that me and jon are waiting regardless of whether you've done it or not.

As for the promise ring, it really had nothing to do with your comment about marrying Kem. It was just another side note thing.

Anyways, when are you guys going to meet on friday?